The grey gaps between a relationship
Sunday, May 22, 2011, ϟ 0 shout(s)
I got so many questions tonight. Time by the time, I saw many couples. Broke up and get back together. I wonder. I really wonder.
Simulation of real life case 1 : He/She feel like breaking up with him/her. Because He/She knows that 2 of 'em can't be "long lasting". They always argue and war. Alright. We know that, 2 of 'em must be break up one day. How to stand? But, both of 'em love each other so much. But he/she really exhausted. 5 years relationship, a really heavy burden or responsible (*more polite way to describe). He/she decided to stay because of "5 years relationship" and the responsible. Good ending right? How you know this won't happen again? How you know he/she will not feel like breaking up again? I wonder, how come he/she can have a thought to break up (*break up is sadness, heart broken, killing and damn) but he/she can still act like nothing and as usual? You have a few mins to a few hours stop loving him/her or even hate him/her. The love went to the ending of the life but how to back to normal like usual?
Simulation of real life case 2 : A pair couple, meet at the same place but dream for different places. For example, after Form 6 one of 'em want to continue studies at oversea but another one want to stay back for his/her dream. Separate places, LDR is hard to maintain. You know that he/she probably will leave and find another one. Quit for the relationship. (*Of course, you maybe will do the same too. No one knows) Start from the day you know he/she maybe going to find another one, how you gonna continue this relationship? You always think that he/she will leave. You will stop giving all the love and doubt for everything. How to continue with this situation? You don't believe in her and you like a real predictor can predict the thing. What for staying together with lo of doubts and unbelieving? How?
Simulation of real life case 3 : As I know, no one like to share, boy friend/girl friend I mean. You can say it's possessive. Everyone also the same. You like to compliment other people (*with different sexual), your he/she will unhappy? He/she will feel so jealous or envy? But you never praise him/her. Just think it from him/her side, how if one day he/she praising other or others come and talk to your partner and praise him/her? Will you jealous?
When you think he/she is wrong, he/she will have a same thought too, you are wrong. You in the game, you only know your feeling and other's comment. You won't cross over and know his/her feeling.
Labels: Boy, Girl, jealous, love, love story
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